Sept 2018 - Your Journey to Being Whole (5) "The Intention of Empowering Relationships”
So far in this series, I have written about the energy mechanism of Realisations and then how your life is actively shaped by your Intention... The first two fundamental ideas involved in this were Non-Judgement and Non-Interference . This month is about Relationships because if you don't judge or interfere, how do you develop Relationships with anything? How do you face problems or change your life for the better? How do you not just sit on the fence all the time or let life pass you by? How do you facilitate change and progress if you do not control the circumstances or the people involved? How do you engage with Life in the fullest and most fulfilling way possible?
Being Yourself... Last month's discussion on Non-Interference focused on how you have the Right to have your own personal space, free from interference, “freedom to live your life, physical and mental privacy, safety and security”. Before being able to be in a Healthy Empowering Relationship, it is important to be able to form and maintain your own secure Space, be aware of who you are, your Values and what you enjoy. Holistic healing, meditation, mindfulness and other psychic tools can help enable and support this process. Being more Self-Empowered helps make your boundaries clearer and you will become more aware of your RELATIONSHIP ENERGIES...
Being in Relationship... Being Self-Empowered may seem like the answer to everything but it is the Foundation to the next phase of Holistic Self-Development about Relationship Dynamics. This is the Journey of learning how to maintain your Space AND relate to another in increasing levels of complexity and intimacy. Your focus will be less on self-survival and protection and more about developing a Life which empowers and nurtures you. This is a Choice you can make but how do you change a relationship without criticising or blaming (Non-Judgement) or being manipulative or demanding (Non-Interference).... the next quality of Intention....
“Have Empowering Relationship Energy” Not only do you have the Right to Self- Empowerment but you also have the Right to choose who you are and how you behave in a Relationship... you can choose to have Empowering Relationship Energy!! You will begin to realise where behaviours are repetitive and see how to make them more positive and constructive... and not only for your own benefit! If you have Rights to a Life that is yours so does the person you are in relationship with! By empowering your own Relationship Energy, you will empower and build resilience into the whole Relationship so you both will benefit! Win-Win :)
'Your Journey to Being Whole' Series
> (3) Intention – Non-Judgement
> (4) Intention – Non-Interference
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